HNTheory

I spend a lot of time being light and salacious here. But I've got the mind of a scientist (its genetic, dad's a physicist) and I find that I'm always looking at scientific reporting from the point of view of cuck/hotwife/swinger who knows that some fair amount of our alternative behavior can be explained biologically, psychologically or sociologically. Some folks look at you like your a nut job when you start expounding pet theories behind the enjoyment of wife-sharing etc. Some folks just aren't that interested in the anthropology of their own craniums. We'll, that ain't me, babe.

There's an article in Slate I just read that explains pretty well why men have ridges on their cocks. And it explains why sloppy seconds are sloppy. It has to do with the propensity of women to cheat, and why biologically it makes sense for them to do so. I won't go through this whole theory blow by blow but basically boys are shaped the way they are so they can scoop out their rivals goo and plant their own. And when they say size matters, it may, in so much as it allows for a deeper delivery of man sauce. When your wife comes back from that next work trip, you know you will want to fuck the hell out of her. VSK and I always joked about it as "reclaiming my territory." Turns out we were right according to the theoretical biologists.

All this matters not in the realm of justification, because I don't really hew to what is right and proper in all matters matrimonial. On this day in celebration of romantic love I'd like nothing better than a three-way. But given that its Survivor night and the VSK is a fan, I'll settle for her happiness and a late night rogering. She'll get this valentine and maybe a surprise or two. Our biological wiring, and keeping an open mind to it, provides quite a few surprises to the couple that listens carefully.

HNT Catch-up

I've noticed a trend amongst the adult bloggers I read. It seems like January or maybe its just winter and the holidays correlates with fewer posts. I know that VSK and I have cooled a bit. Its not that we aren't enjoying each other but that fiery flirtatous playfulness that drives the theme behind this blog seems to have gone on a bit of a vacation. I came home last night and she was charged up, bit me a couple of times playfully and we wrestled on the floor. But by the time we got to bed, the jets had cooled and while we managed up enough steam to knock one out, it was more a tribute to our respect for our sex life and each other than something with its own energy. I'm not complaining. Love often trumps lust. Lusty days lay ahead, not doubt. The weather is warming and with it our libidos.

I'll put multiple pics out today. Trying to catch-up. Or maybe trying to catch-on, as in on-fire. Here's hoping you do too!

Seduce me

The day by day dance of a married couple like us, or unlike us, is that basically we both try to turn things into our favor in regards to romance. There isn't much rancor at this point as it is hard to push a button that hasn't been pushed before. Should one of us behave badly or shall we say in a way that is transparent, the other busts the behavior so fast it'd make your head spin. VSK and I bewilder more than a few folks with our banter or our physicality. I think frankly the reason we still connect is partially because we still bewilder each other. Which is kinda like how it is when you meet someone new.

We took a basket of pictures last Friday, and entertained guests all weekend. A very very average type weekend, no high jinx. Last night I got VSK to do me the way I most enjoy it, a kiss, a blow, under her and then on top with her hitting all the spots to make me come unhinged.

It can't always be spice. There has to be a foundation I think. There is a saying in sport that you have to let the game come to you, rather than forcing things. I think that is right. I just wish I was more patient. But, hell, I'm human. I want it all now. And frankly, viewing her, I have a heck of a lot.

Fishboobs

These pics are the result of VSK's quick thinking. Bonus points for those tropical fish hobbyists out there for correctly identifying the species of fish in the tank. The boobs I think you may be able to identify without consulting your local library.

HNT: massage

Here is that massage position I was talking about in the last post. She can bring deep relaxation this way . . . If view this pic provokes any deep relaxation out there, I'm sure kitty would like to hear about it.

Some of the pics I post are too dark, but I swear they are there. I hate the harshness of flash. I like my pics, like my VSK, au natural.

Desperate Housewife?

Not that I'd really describe VSK (or myself) as one, watching the show last night was more fun than usual. VSK can't help but multi-task and since she wanted her jeans washed she was left wearing what you see here. At least until the TV went off. Then she put me to bed proper with one of her famous "I'll lie on my back and you lie on top of me massages." Its a real winner for getting the kinks out of a semi-desperate husband's libido.

A Happy New Year

This is from a recent trip. Proof that even in sunny SoCal, there can be a lot of snowy beauty. And VSK too.