We have been frequenting a particular bar lately and making new friends. In fact we have become quite the scandalous couple, with our sometimes nearly exposed lifestyle slipping out after a few too many glasses of what ever special vintage is going around that night. So we play and the servers play back. Its fun and the cameraman topic comes up from time to time.
One particular couple who works there stimulates our interest quite a bit. Probably too young for us but its fun to fantasize. That teasing flirtatious nature in VSK works wonder on men and women too. I think this is how we distract ourselves while we wait for the next visit from Minx.
Finding people to share "libations and sensations that stagger the mind" has become easier over the years. I often read about couples new to exploring that ask, "how do you find people who we might want to play with?" The answer becomes a tautology with experience. Want the right people. For the right reasons. Communicate that honestly and the rest seems to take care of itself.