Thursday, April 30, 2009

HNT: Rose in the Garden

Quick and to the point. Take off your top honey, we got to post for HNT. Done. Smells good . . .

Thursday, April 23, 2009

HNT: Grab one

Just fooling around before bedtime. Sometimes you just gotta grab a pic. Or a boob.

Happy HNT folks!

Tuesday, April 21, 2009


VSK and I took a risk when we first said "I do" over twenty years ago. And we've taken numerous risks over the years, from children to mortgages to this blog, as a team. Given that she and I have rather different communication styles, demeanor, interests (we share the sex interest big time) histories, childhoods, affinities, roles, whatever, its through our sharing of experiences that we continually build our relationship. It could be said that a relationship that's not growing is shrinking, but that's a little too simplistic for declaration. Sometimes our affair of the heart gets shunted aside for the affairs of the married life, and there are certainly ups and downs. Right now we are back to creating new memories and friendships, rolling the dice to see what might come up.

Minx certainly has risen to the top of our mutual list. Our most recent overnighter was relaxing, sensual, and at times hilarious. We usually come out of each meeting with one sharp moment of lucidity, one that lingers as a phrase in our minds that we can call up in our mundane moments for our benefit. I won't necessarily share these exact thoughts as they are our private coin of the realm, but I imagine this is what the intimacies of all who play experience from time to time. Its our private OZ, an unreal reality separate from the day to day. Will such an escape demand to see the light of daily practice? Could we or do we all want to live in a different world than the habitual one we've each built over years of investment? I don't think I am anywhere near an answer. At the moment our oddball status quo seems to work. Each of us seems content, connected and invested in further exploits.

Here's a pic of Minx and VSK. You can imagine the blurry quality is an artifact of not only a shaky hand in poor light, but a hazy reality of buzzy erotic satiation. Something like that. My women rock. I am ridiculously well off right now, economic crisis be damned.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

HNT: always playing catch up

We've been remiss in not updating the blog lately, and I know this is a common lament. So some catch up is in order, and a picture is due. Here you go.

We've been entertaining a lot of experimentation over the last few months and while there have been some misses, its mostly been hits. There are several different ways to approach playtime, and I think we have tried them all. VSK and I have gone to the swing clubs this year, and while generally we like the experience, its not perfect and can be a little impersonal. Which some people like. Its almost a requirement for some "swingers" for the sex to be with a stranger. That's really not our cup of tea.

After getting back from one such romp, one of our fwb's asked me how I got over the jealousy of VSK with others. Kind of a funny question since he enjoys her attentions. A nice question really, as he is a bit protective of her. I don't really have an answer, other than I've turned my jealousies into a fetish of sorts, and my favorite flavor is to watch her with another man. I like watching her with the Minx too, but the other day I got to watch my friend fuck her and even taped a couple of short movies of it. That is pure turn-on for me, listening to her give into it. I may even post one of the vid's here, although I don't want trouble from Blogger. Any advice on posting videos folks?

There are other channels besides fwb and swing clubs. There are online sexual match making sites that we did try once a long time ago. In fact our profile still lingers out there and the site allows folks to send free emails. We got one from a couple and may in fact meet up with them. Something about the process seems false though. Its really random luck whether you'll meet up with someone who you might connect with. And connecting just to feel naughty really is over for us. We need actual chemistry.

Where else? I'd love it if there was a blogger group face to face some day. Reading people's blogs and hearing them talk about their experiences seems to be a step up from the online dating services. For affinity, we are already writers, a shared burden that can be parsed for laughs and succor. For now, it looks like our rendezvous's with the Minx and a potential four-way play with one of VSK's work boyfriends and a recruit sound inviting, mixed in with an occasional playtime with our usual fwb. I need to have a good fantasy going and having a queue of them make the day go by more interestingly. Those things and this blog. Those of you who read and lurk, and especially those who say hey from time to time really do us a service. Thanks!

Thursday, April 2, 2009

HNT: No bustier

We bought a bustier Tuesday, with hopes to put it into action this weekend at a famous SCal gathering spot for folks of our predilictions. But I haven't taken any new pics of VSK in it, so you get this one of her from a while back. Close enough for government work.