Thursday, April 16, 2009

HNT: always playing catch up

We've been remiss in not updating the blog lately, and I know this is a common lament. So some catch up is in order, and a picture is due. Here you go.

We've been entertaining a lot of experimentation over the last few months and while there have been some misses, its mostly been hits. There are several different ways to approach playtime, and I think we have tried them all. VSK and I have gone to the swing clubs this year, and while generally we like the experience, its not perfect and can be a little impersonal. Which some people like. Its almost a requirement for some "swingers" for the sex to be with a stranger. That's really not our cup of tea.

After getting back from one such romp, one of our fwb's asked me how I got over the jealousy of VSK with others. Kind of a funny question since he enjoys her attentions. A nice question really, as he is a bit protective of her. I don't really have an answer, other than I've turned my jealousies into a fetish of sorts, and my favorite flavor is to watch her with another man. I like watching her with the Minx too, but the other day I got to watch my friend fuck her and even taped a couple of short movies of it. That is pure turn-on for me, listening to her give into it. I may even post one of the vid's here, although I don't want trouble from Blogger. Any advice on posting videos folks?

There are other channels besides fwb and swing clubs. There are online sexual match making sites that we did try once a long time ago. In fact our profile still lingers out there and the site allows folks to send free emails. We got one from a couple and may in fact meet up with them. Something about the process seems false though. Its really random luck whether you'll meet up with someone who you might connect with. And connecting just to feel naughty really is over for us. We need actual chemistry.

Where else? I'd love it if there was a blogger group face to face some day. Reading people's blogs and hearing them talk about their experiences seems to be a step up from the online dating services. For affinity, we are already writers, a shared burden that can be parsed for laughs and succor. For now, it looks like our rendezvous's with the Minx and a potential four-way play with one of VSK's work boyfriends and a recruit sound inviting, mixed in with an occasional playtime with our usual fwb. I need to have a good fantasy going and having a queue of them make the day go by more interestingly. Those things and this blog. Those of you who read and lurk, and especially those who say hey from time to time really do us a service. Thanks!


13messages said...

I comment way too seldom, but I always enjoy what you two write and share. She's beautiful, indeed.

Get8More said...

Sexy Wife!

Emma Kelly said...

Hi Witness,

Turning your jealousies into fetishes is a great way to describe one aspect of how to enjoy a partners sexual adventures.


Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

Pizza Boy said...

How do I get invited for playtime? Sounds like fun! Keep the great pictures comming

Matt said...

I for one want to jump in to say your suggestion about face-to-face meetings for sex bloggers sounds fascinating, whether for "business", camaraderie or ?? :) I think there would be plenty of opportunity for bouncing perspectives off of each other, knowing they understand your experiences (and your grammar as well). Pesky geography would of course be likely to get in the way, but the prospect of this kind of "intercourse" (ok, sue me) with like-minded individuals sounds tantalizing. Have you gotten any other responses to this suggestion?

vsk witness said...

Those of you who have similiar blogs and would like to gather in the fine State of California or maybe Vegas, let me know. It would be nice to meet some fellow freaks!