The day by day dance of a married couple like us, or unlike us, is that basically we both try to turn things into our favor in regards to romance. There isn't much rancor at this point as it is hard to push a button that hasn't been pushed before. Should one of us behave badly or shall we say in a way that is transparent, the other busts the behavior so fast it'd make your head spin. VSK and I bewilder more than a few folks with our banter or our physicality. I think frankly the reason we still connect is partially because we still bewilder each other. Which is kinda like how it is when you meet someone new.
We took a basket of pictures last Friday, and entertained guests all weekend. A very very average type weekend, no high jinx. Last night I got VSK to do me the way I most enjoy it, a kiss, a blow, under her and then on top with her hitting all the spots to make me come unhinged.
It can't always be spice. There has to be a foundation I think. There is a saying in sport that you have to let the game come to you, rather than forcing things. I think that is right. I just wish I was more patient. But, hell, I'm human. I want it all now. And frankly, viewing her, I have a heck of a lot.